Driving in Penang

It's been years since I left Penang to study and work. Every now and then when I go back to my beloved hometown, the only thing I hate is the driving bit. Why?

1. Motorcyles are kings of the roads. You bang/kill them, you're at fault no matter what. Don't ask me why.
2. On normal roads (2-lane roads inclusive), you'd be pleased to drive faster than 50 kph at normal times.
3. There are 11 traffic lights from Gurney Drive to Tanjung Bungah (the place I stay) on a so-called widened road!
4. Worst of all, the traffic lights are not synchronised, so no point hitting the accelerator and jumping the red light because you're almost certain to see red the next one.
5. People in Penang do not understand what is "Beri Laluan" so they just wait patiently for the green light. When you honk at them, they look at you like wth is wrong.
6. Driving in Penang is like brake-accelerate-brake-accelerate (not more than 50kph btw).
7. There is no fast lane in Penang. In fact, in Burma Road, the fast and slow lanes are for cars to park illegally to buy stuffs. So in effect, the only lane that is usable is the middle lane, but then again see point 6 because of the in and outcoming of the cars in the fast and slow lanes.
8. They say island people are very kiasu, i second that although I'm not:) Cars/motorcyles swerve left and right as they like but when you genuinely need them to give you way, they will stick it in there like the fight of their day.

I'm pretty sure there are more points to the above, but we shall revisit when I encounter more lol

Of superstitions and obsessions

I am not exactly a superstitious person to say the least. I've always raised eyebrows at my friends or relatives who believe in superstitions. My best friend is one who is obsessed with crystals, landed homes (apparently it gives the land chi or something), face features, palm reading etc. I in the other hand feel that this is a pretty damaging obsession. Simple reason: I do not want to be told how to live my life. Of all the people who believe in all these, they would always say the same thing "Listen only ma...no harm". Think again, are you sure there's no harm? When one tells you that you're gonna have a bad year this year (accidents, health complications), you'd surely tend to be more careful when you live your daily lives. I once read a book that says the more you think of avoiding something, the more likely it will happen.

Case 1: You just bought a new car and you drive with extra caution. The more you think of avoiding accidents, the more likely it will happen.
Case 2: Have you ever found yourself waiting for an important call next to the phone but it never did come? But once you have lost patience waiting by the phone, the call comes in!

I truly believe in the above. Therefore I've never believed in obsessions of superstitions. However there's only one thing that I've not dared to go against. Growing up, I remember often reading newspaper articles of accident victims' relatives coming out to say "the boy/girl has given us a special something (hug/letter) before the accident). Perhaps that is how it has affected me and till today, sadly, I've never given my parents a hug since younger days I think. I guess it was just this fear that I'll lose them if I do something like that.

Speaking of obsessions, I can't stand people who are too immersed in something. I don't think I have for once, been crazy about any one celebrity or team. I do admire a list of celebrities but there's not ONE that stands out that deserves my craze. The recent loss of Man Utd to Liverpool showed me how childish people can get by getting angry and stuff. Come on...Man Utd nor Liverpool knows how you feel about the win/loss! I have had people come to me and made fun of Man Utd knowing I support them and probably thinking that I would be agitated but I wasn't. It was just plainly a game of sports! and I know very well in any game, no matter how superior you are, you have to lose sometimes and lose graciously, you ought to. There's no denying Liverpool played a good game that night so they deserved it, period. The league is not won by a game but 38 games.

How people just amuse me every day.....hahaha

Ahh!!!!

How much I hate extremists really! I just couldn't help being so disappointed with these people in the country. Seriously, what the hell is wrong with teaching Math and Science in English?! And no, I don't think this is a racial issue, we have all kinds of extremists i.e. Dong Ziao or whatever shit name they call it, the rural people bla bla

Fine, you may argue that the underlying issue is that our teachers themselves are not prepared to teach in English because most of them can't speak proper English. Fair enough the blame is on the government for rushing things into implementation without considering the consequences, but how can one argue that it's a wrong cause?! It's not about forgetting your roots (as they say) nor is it about being patriotic! How does learning the global language hurt you, tell me?!

I for one, wish I learned Mandarin and I would really, if my job requires me to. It is simply about adapting to global evolutions! If you're stuck in a foreign land, say France for a year, could you survive a year without learning French, not even the slightest bit? Does that make you less patriotic because you learned an additional language? damn, really can't comprehend what these people are thinking!

Tough language they say? To me, it's all about the attitude. We learned Malay and English and some, Mandarin from standard 1. I don't recall any of us having any problems back then, how is it different this time? It's really all about instilling the attitude from day 1.

I could totally understand if they were protesting the implementation approach, but no, they were protesting the cause! It hurts thinking about when the country will ever progress if a simple decision like this gets protested on the streets... sigh bolehland

Just like that

Today I made ONE wrong turn and the result was double the normal travelling time! Amazing. I'm glad I made the right turn in my career almost 2 years ago though:) I always wonder about where and what I'll be in a few years from now, do you?

Status: Married with kids/Single playboy
Career: High Flyer/Flop
Financials: Richer/Poorer

And then, I'll start thinking about a decade from now, and then when I turn 70 (if i am fortunate). No wonder they say growing up is scary:p

I Remember.....

There were various people who have great influence in my life but there were just the few people whom have left a mark that I could vividly remember them...
Pn. Rohani - My std 3 teacher who was a fierce one. We will never forget how she emphasises the way we write letters and digits like 'e' and '5'. She would make us memorise the 'sifir' and those who fail will have to stand on the chair till the end of the period. Her classes were therefore always very tense and not looked forward to. However as I moved on, I realised what a solid foundation she has bestowed on me and forever I'm thankful.

Chee Keong - the super senior (6 years) who has been there for me and everyone through all those years. I've always said the reason I was active in Red Crescent society was not because I wanted so much to be a volunteer or a first aider. Pretty blunt but that's the truth. Being a volunteer was a secondary thing but of course it does help knowing i contributed to the society at one point of my life:) anyway, it was seniors like him who taught me so much about life and discipline, nowhere else I would have gotten them. It amazes me really how my seniors were so mature, even at a tender age back then. I wish i have that same influencing impact on my juniors and that they look up to me just as much as I do my seniors.

Mr. Loh Chin Kuang - My Math sir who was also a life philosopher. I remember his interesting lessons touching about how we should look forward to success in life with a strong-willed attitude. I think above all, he taught me the reason to be happy and positive. His never forgotten favourite phrases were "Every day should be my birthday" and "When we wake up each day, we all have a choice to be happy or moody, either way you still have to live, so why be moody?"

My priorities

Here's how it looks on the outside: I have a good job, pay, perks and incentives. I get to travel to places on business trips and get enrolled in expensive trainings like Prince2 and Six Sigma. And here's what people don't see: It's just another frustrating job. On my travel trips, I had to do hand-washed laundry, work late at nights, and only have the weekend to look forward to.

I guess my point is one is never contented isn't it? We always look at other people and think "wow they're having a wonderful life and mine sucks". Well the grass is always greener at the other side. I know the new role come April will be a steep learning curve and I'm pretty confident I'll have lesser things to complain as I'll have better control of things than now.

I am indeed thankful that my job has enabled me and my loved ones to fly to places with my own hard-earned money. Growing up, the only places I've ever travelled outside the country were Thailand and Singapore. I was never that fortunate as my other friends but I never did complain as my parents made sure we cover a lot of places within the country. Furthermore the last thing I want is for them to spend their hard earned money on me. I truly believe my peers who come from mediocre-earning families would understand how great the feeling is to be able to finally sponsor our own travels.

My priorities in life at the moment and at my age, are my parents and living life to the fullest hence the travels and good food. This translates to very little savings, lol. However, people who know me well know I live life the moderate way and you would never see me in debt or spending extravagantly over something (except food I guess :D).

There you go, for those who are curious, my priorities and I'm sure you have yours too. Whatever you choose, be contented and be happy in life:)